7 Lessons My Crappy Ex Boyfriend Taught Me

7. Moms know your boyfriend is an asshole before you do. She knew when she first met him. I tell you, we need to trust our moms more! They’ve been through all of this before us.

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6. You can’t change someone who doesn’t want to change. So many times we think we are the problem when someone doesn’t treat us well. That is not true. Their decision to treat you poorly has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with them. They are the one who doesn’t deserve you, not the other way around.

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5. If everyone around you is telling you he is cheating on you, then he is probably cheating on you! Please believe me when I tell you this. It is very rare people will make this up. He will try to convince that they are though, and if you believe him then in the end you will most likely look stupid, feel humiliated, and be even more hurt! Run for your life!

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4. If he is still getting texts from random girls, then it is most likely because they are still getting a reply. Yes there are some crazies out there that sometimes won’t leave your man alone, but a lot of the time, he is just telling you they are crazy and in reality he is just an ass.

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3. Ending the relationship will not be as bad as you think. It’s so scary to end a relationship with someone, especially when you’ve been with them for so long, but if this person isn’t treating you right, then it is worth it to end it! I promise you that you will find happiness else where. You don’t need people in your life that don’t respect you.

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2. Being single is better than being treated poorly. When you’ve been in a relationship for so long, it feels like being single would feel wrong. But guess what, you’re pretty awesome! So get to know yourself and love yourself! It will be okay.

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1. They always come back. Now this one is important… When you finally get the courage to leave, he is going to turn on the charm, and beg for you back. DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK! Turn on some Taylor Swift, and sing along, because he ain’t sorry girl!

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47 Comments Add yours

  1. nomthethom says:

    True that…mom told me my ex fiance was a jerk and he proved her right

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    1. Been there as well! We can both be thankful they’re an ex now though!

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      1. nomthethom says:

        Couldn’t agree more.

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  2. milcahk says:

    please follow me as I m new to wordpress

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  3. Blue Settia says:

    I like #4 I never thought about it that way. They probably are still getting a reply. And its so true, they always come back! Always.

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    1. Yes!! They’re not getting a reply while you’re around, but as soon as you leave, they are! And yes they do. Never fails! Haha

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  4. Very good, I love this post. Keep up the good work!

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  5. I like it. I like it a lot. Everyone of these has been tested and found true. He ain’t sorry! It’s better to be alone and peaceful! He ain’t sorry! A repeat for emphasis. Nice post, girlie.

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    1. Haha yes!!! Thank you 😊❤ Glad you liked it.

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  6. justcille says:

    Hi! It happened to me like in #1
    That is when i’m about to moved on and they come back… as if nothing really happened.

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  7. omotomoni says:

    Tried commenting on the excerpt from your book, the one you shared but it’s not getting through. Here’s my comment on it tho. “Wooow!👏👏👏 welldone! This is beautiful…very captivating. I was completely drawn in; Congrats in advance, its going to be a book everyone would want to read.”

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    1. Hm, I will check it out! But thank you so much! Really appreciate that 😊❤

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      1. omotomoni says:

        You’re most welcome😊❤

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      2. Accidentally had hit the private button! Thank you for letting me know 🙂

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      3. omotomoni says:

        Oooops! You’re welcome❤😊

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  8. The only thing mine taught me was to always put tabasco sauce on your super noodles. xxx

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    1. This has me actually cracking up laughing, so thank you hahaha

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      1. Hahaha i’m glad! 😂

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  9. Open Mind Scattered Thoughts says:

    #2 is beyond true! Personally, dealing with that right now.
    You always have to love and know yourself, before you can ever love anyone else the way they should be. Love your post!!! ❤

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    1. Yes exactly!! Thank you so much 😊❤

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  10. Omg this is great. Number 7 is very true, love it!

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    1. Thank you! Glad you enjoyed 😊

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  11. thetimidmouse says:

    Wow I love this! 100% true and now I realize I should have done what I’m doing now a lot sooner!

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    1. Glad you liked it!! Better now than never 😊❤

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      1. thetimidmouse says:

        Exactly, I had to man up and do it. He still doesn’t approve 😛

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  12. Nina says:

    Great list! I just discovered your blog and can’t wait to dig in.

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    1. Scattered Scripturient says:

      Thank you!! 😊

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  13. very cute animation. I Like this post! 🙂

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    1. Scattered Scripturient says:

      Thank you 😊❤

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  14. I will definitely use these tips in the future.

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  15. Britney says:

    This is absolutely true! I had to learn the hard way, but I’m a lot wiser in this area now. I’ve been happily single for years now, but I know how I want to be treated in my next relationship and won’t settle for anything less.

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    1. Scattered Scripturient says:

      Good for you, girl!!! I also had to learn the hard way. It sucks we had too but in the end I’m just glad we did learn 😊😊

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  16. This is great! And, so, SO true! Preach on sister!!

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    1. Scattered Scripturient says:

      Thanks girl!! 😊😊

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  17. Absolutely love this. And all of your posts, currently stalking your blog!! Great writing!!
    Xx

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    1. Scattered Scripturient says:

      Thanks so much!!! 😊

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  18. Reblogged this on OUR MIXED BOX and commented:
    This girl hits bull’s eye 😂😂

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  19. Yes, I agree, mother knows best!!!

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    1. Scattered Scripturient says:

      Yes haha for sure! 😊

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  20. SudsEats says:

    Number 2 and 1. So many women seem to need to be with someone regardless of treatment. They often take them back.

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